What is cheating?

“Here’s the litmus test – if it will upset the other party when they find out, I think it’s considered cheating. So if you have to hide it, you shouldn’t do it.”

– Xiaxue’s Mike

Do you agree or disagree with the above statement?

Is flirting cheating?

Does emotional cheating exist?

How do you trust the person who cheated you or cheated on you?

Personally, I think it’s amazing how many people have different perceptions and various definitions of a word when it should be plainly straightforward.

How can there be a grey area on this particular subject?

Someone once asked me, “Do you want to go cheating with me?”

Seriously, wtf.

Since when was cheating perceived as a casual leisure activity.

Am I getting more traditional or naïve?


Grrr…Why am I not satisfied?

I miss you!

It’s no longer november

I invited you in.

And now, what?

My mind is out of control.

Why am I doing this to myself?

Why am I doing this to you?

“It’s not me.
It can’t be.
It’s not you.
I can’t do what I do if it’s you.
This is not happening.”

– Mew

It’s my turn to be nice.

“I wonder, how am I supposed to feel when you’re not here.
‘Cause I burnt every bridge I ever built when you were here.
I still try… holding onto silly things, I never learn.
Oh why? All the possibilities. I’m sure you’ve heard.”

– Paramore

God, please help me to let go.

Please increase my tolerance.

I don’t want to let these little or big things get to me anymore.

I’m self-destructing.